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Leaving Dakota | Print |  E-mail
Written by Chris J. Magyar   
Wednesday, 30 July 2008

The last LGBT club in Santa Cruz is going out of business

Does the gay community need a bar in a tolerant town? Since opening in 1996, Club Dakota has been the center of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered community in Santa Cruz. As the Blue Lagoon has slowly shifted toward a more mixed crowd, and after Club Caution closed its doors last year, Dakota stood as a last bastion of rainbow flag-waving in a town where being out is much more likely to be celebrated than shunned.

Faced with financial issues, Dakota’s owner Geoffrey Stout was forced to auction off the club in bankruptcy court on July 11. The space and its licenses have been purchased by Pati Murray and Mike Pitt, the current owners of Fusion at Pearl Alley and Castaways, respectively. There was a quiet purchase attempt made by stone mason Marcus Zelmon before the bankruptcy auction, in which the club’s name and essential identity would have remained the same, but he was unable to complete the transaction before the bankruptcy auction, and was outbid.

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“It was going to be the exact same thing, just upgraded a bit,” says Zelmon. “I have friends who work there and they were the ones who let me know it was for sale.” He says a front-page article in the Sentinel attracted attention to the auction, making it difficult for him. “It got to be very public. And I didn’t think it was very ethical, the way they ran all the numbers of Geoffrey’s debts. That was a little off.”

While he’s not a club regular himself, owning a club has always been, and continues to be, a dream. “I’ve always wanted to own a club, and eventually we might establish another club with the same name, but right now, it’s difficult to do that for various reasons, with needing a new location.”

Business hadn’t been slowing in recent years, but Stout was still too deeply in debt to maintain the club. (For Stout’s thoughts, see his letter on page 6.) With the closure of The Lighthouse in Monterey last year, Aug. 1 will mark the first day in memory when the Central Coast has been without a gay bar.

Memories and Careers

Like most of Dakota’s employees, manager Karen Aulbach is facing an uncertain future. “I’m moving up to Sand Point, Idaho,” she says. “My father and I have some land up there. I’m going to spend my first winter away from the ocean and be in the snow to help him build a barn for his vehicles. But I always joke that people who leave Santa Cruz are inevitably back in six months. I have a feeling that will happen to me.”

Having been with Dakota for 10 years, she feels an inevitable sadness. “We don’t just open the doors every day,” she says. “We try to stay in touch with the community. It’s sad we’re not going to have this vehicle.”

Steven Ongman, who has also worked at the bar for a decade, agrees. “It’s an emotional time for all our staff. It’s that whole bartender identity, getting so connected to the whole gay community, men and women, and to have that connection every weekend suddenly disappear is hard.”

Ongman had a particularly good career with the Dakota, launching his extremely popular Shanda Leer drag show there. “They were horrible at the start,” he says of the early shows. “We thought asking $2 at the door was just beyond the pale. And now we charge $12 to $15 with a full show and talent from around the Bay Area. To go from 20 people showing up to being at full capacity with 75 people waiting around the block, that’s my special memory.”

He says the drag show will live on somehow, somewhere, but it will be some time before he gets his bearings. “It’s like Carol Burnett, going out with good ratings,” he says. “Now is the time to metamorphose into something new.”

Another popular Dakota fixture that has been with the bar since the beginning is DJ AD, long-time winner of the most popular DJ in Santa Cruz in the GT “Best Of Santa Cruz” readers’ poll. Getting her start as a fill-in, AD quickly became one of the club’s main draws. While she has side gigs with weddings and private parties lined up, she, too, is wondering where the next home will be. “I’m very thankful to the Dakota crowds for the whole experience,” she says. “It was like family for the employees as well as the customers. The customers felt it as a safe place to go. I’m sure the Santa Cruz Police Department appreciated how well we ran our club. We had it down to the bartenders knowing your name and what drink to pour from the minute you walked in, and they took the time to listen to you, whether you had the best of news or news that was not so good.”

Ongman says he learned everything he needed to know about good bartending at the club. “My first guy I ever served, he was completely drunk—pulled up a chair and fell on the floor,” he says. “I got confrontational, and I learned that confrontation just gets you into a fight. So from then on I turned it around and just made fun of it, or handed them a glass of water and walked away. You have to treat people with kindness and love and realize they’re there to have a good time, but when it’s no more, it’s no more.”

He remembers a particular night when word spread through the club that Cher was coming from a concert in San Jose, and all the patrons went out on the sidewalk to look for her limo. “She never showed up,” he recalls. “Or if she did, we thought it was just a really pretty drag queen.”

For AD, it’s one particular dancer who came up to her one night. “She was sick with cancer, and she told me when she comes to dance to my music it makes her feel better,” she says. “Things like that were what Dakota was about.” AD promises to keep her followers updated about her next move on the Club Dakota MySpace page. “You haven’t seen the last of me, that’s for sure.”

A Labor Day Transition

Neither of the new owners are strangers to transitions. When Pati Murray took over the decades-old Pearl Alley Bistro at the beginning of this year, renaming it Fusion at Pearl Alley, she was very careful to keep the old customers happy even as she made big changes—a lounge area with a DJ was added and the walls were opened up for local artists. “We want to make sure there’s a smooth transition,” she says of the Dakota space, which is slated for a Labor Day Weekend reopening. “We both respect the history of the Dakota, and want to reopen it without offending or disrespecting the owners or the current clients. Dakota has meant a lot to Santa Cruz.”

Murray is a true local, born and raised here, as is Mike Pitt, who recently went through his own transition story when he took over Castaways in Capitola. Pitt’s renovation of Castaways was more radical, but only due to necessity—the previous ownership had let the building and its reputation fall into disrepair, and it took some extensive remodelling and a new attitude toward safety in order to turn the corner. “Luckily the Dakota’s in great shape,” he says. “We don’t have any idea of completely changing the whole thing.”

But there will be some changes, including the name, though they’re still toying with ideas on that. Pearl Alley and Dakota have always shared the restrooms in the back of the building, and the new owners see a lot of possibilities with the two businesses combined into one. While nothing’s set in stone yet, the idea is to open for lunch and get full food service into the Dakota. “It will be a shopping waystation, a sit-down meal that’s not so involved, where people can refuel with some tapas and a cocktail,” says Pitt.

While the deal is still, as of press time, in escrow, and licenses are still in the process of being transferred, neither new owner is too worried. “Obviously there are some execution hurdles,” says Pitt, “and I don’t ever count my chickens until they hatch, but both Pati and myself are already license holders, and we aren’t looking to change the fundamental impact of the business on the community.”

“I think this is the best location on Pacific,” Murray adds.

The pair acknowledges a transition is in the works, but one that should not, by any design, alienate current clientele. “We’re just service-oriented people,” Pitt says. “We want to provide a safe and fun experience for everybody, with no exclusion. And I realize that hot spots change. When I was growing up, the Blue Lagoon was the gay bar, so things shift around. I don’t know if Dakota is a gay bar or if all cultures are accepted, but there’s been a feeling out there that they haven’t been accepting about people outside the gay community. I know in Geoffrey’s heart he’s been open to everyone, but I don’t know if the staff has always been that way.”

What Does Santa Cruz Need?

For what it’s worth, the vast majority of Dakota’s Yelp reviews mention specifically how comfortable straight reviewers have been in the club—“The gay/straight ratio was good enough for us to stay and just have some fun dancing;” “I’m not gay, but when my best friend and I went, I was jealous I wasn’t;” “I am a straight woman also, I felt right at home here;” “Didn’t know it was a gay bar but figured it out as the night progressed;” “Regardless of whether you are gay or straight, you can still have the best time here”—with the most negative comments being either about rude bouncers or the fact that it’s not gay enough for some San Franciscans.

But does Santa Cruz still have a need for a branded and bannered gay club? Murray and Pitt are sincere in their desire to maintain a safe and open atmosphere, and the closure of two gay clubs in such short order begs the question if the local community still has enough desire to keep such a place open.

“I still think there’s a strong need,” DJ AD says. “In our case it was just financial problems. Maybe they could have been dealt with a little better, but I don’t mean to put anybody down for that, it just happens. We still need a safe place. You have other clubs where stabbings happen. Our security may not have been popular with intoxicated people, but they ran a tight ship, handling it as well as they do and still continuing to work everyday. That level of safety is important.”

Ongman agrees, though he wonders how much of a need the gay community has for a club. “Gay people tend to use the internet more to hook up these days,” he says, “and on the west coast where there’s more acceptability of all lifestyles, everything’s merging and there’s less judgement. I had a gay friend who works at Blue Lagoon say, ‘Steven, we won! We don’t need it!’ And yes, there were some nights at Dakota where it was very straight. But there were still nights when it was all gay men or gay women. I think there’s a need, but the definition of ‘need’ has changed.”

“I definitely think there’s a need for it,” Aulbach says. “I think it’s important to keep the diversity. I’m really hoping that somebody will … that this might shock some people into doing something about the lack of a gay club in town. We’ve had a lot of people come up with really positive feedback, saying we need to do something. And a lot of people come up with money to do things, but I’m not in the mental space to turn around yet and do this all over.”

She adds, “I really want people to wake up and hope that we can get something new and better going. I don’t think this is the end. People have had so many amazing experiences at Club Dakota. When we close our doors at 2 a.m., the stories will continue and keep everybody’s spirit up there to really get out and do something. And I’m sure as soon as winter is over I’ll be running back to Santa Cruz to be a part of whatever’s going to happen next.”

 

Club Dakota’s last day is Thursday, July 31. Call 454-9030 for more information.

 

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I'm not gay, but I always felt so welcome at Dakota, it was my favorite place to go on the weekend to dance and have fun meeting new people and getting together with good friends.

The bouncers always treated me with respect & kindness and the staff was fantastic. I was always greeted with warm smiles and big hugs.

I felt like I was part of a family whenever I went there. I'm really sad that the club is closing and my heart goes out to the staff and to the gay community.
Joanne , July 30, 2008
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If you ask me I think Pati Murray (the new owner) is the one who isn't accepting of all cultures and for her to say she doesn't know if Dakota is a gay bar is a lie! Did she just now move into town? No. She knows its a gay bar. Why would she say she doesn't know?

Not that it should matter but I am straight and a local here from Santa Cruz. I have been going to Dakota for many many years. Since I first walked into Dakota I have never felt so welcome and comfortable, and treated with so much respect at a bar. All the wonderful people who have worked there have accepted me like a family member. I love them all ! Each and everyone of them have always been accepting of all and any cultures. What they will not accept are drunks trying to get into the club who have had one too many, whether they were straight OR gay. It's rare to have bouncers like Dakota who really know how to do their job.

I am going to miss Dakota and all the wonderful people who have came into my life because of it (yes we better keep in touch).

I also just want to say that I only wish Pati Murray (the new owner) all the success and happiness that she HONESTLY deserves!
Irma , July 31, 2008
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A BIG THANK YOU TO ALL THE CUSTOMERS FOR SUPPORTING US & BEST WISHES TO ALL MY CO-WORKERS!!! HOPE TO SEE YOU ALL FOR THE GOOD BYE PARTY TONIGHT!!! MAN, IF WALLS COULD TALK LOL
DJ A.D. , July 31, 2008
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I am so sad to see Club Dakota Close. I can honestly say that the club and there staff will be greatly missed. Also I wanna thank Karen & staff for making sure that my Mom & Dad, Sisters & Husbands, Niece's & Nephew's were able to enjoy the club while it was open and feel very comfortable being there. My Sister would bring here crew from Las Vegas just to hear DJ AD Spin her beats & rock the mic like she always does, & drink Karen's Martini's. Who could ask for anything better KAREN THE BEST BARTENDER & THE
#1 DJ AD SPINNIN ON THE 1'S and 2'S NOW THAT'S WHAT I AM TALKIN ABOUT. Thank you AD for always making my Wed, Thurs, & Sat Nites ones to remember. Much luv to all. I know we will keep it rollin.
Stephanie (Baby Girl) , July 31, 2008
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First and formost thank you to all the wonderful people that I have worked with at the club. I really have enjoyed being a customer and a employee.

DJ AD you are the best, always will be and damn I remember the good ole days singing in my front room before you became big.

Karen you have been a wonderful friend and we will truly hate to see such a caring, loving and trusting friend leave the area. You will see us where ever you go. You thought you seen the last of us. lol

Steven you know I have enjoyed all the wonderful shows and your cute, sexy face every weekend.

As for Tori and Kara you are hella great bar backs. Love you both

Jeffory, Heather, Nicole, and everyone else who has played a big part of Dakota we love you, and thanks for doing your jobs so well. We will miss our other family.

Lets all keep close and keep in touch and you know who you are.

See you all tonight for our last time at Dakota. We are only leaving 4 walls we are not leaving our people.
Lady D , July 31, 2008
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Being a out and gay person in this small town is pretty hard where do you meet fellow gays I thank the gaylord in the sky for the Dakotas It really helped me turn into the "Queen" that I am and not be judged I mean I have more straight friends then I do gays and its cool but it was just nice to get away from all my hags and get my groove on with some hot mens. Where else am I going to do that. if I keep writing im going to cry so im just going to say that I love my Dakota peeps My aunt AD, Karen, Steven, tori, my girl Heather and so on. I will always remember yall you rocked my world. To all the great friends that I also made at the Dakotas lets fucking keep on rocking. Lots of love.

Adrian
Queen , July 31, 2008
the dakota will be forever missed
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the gay community (and the straight community, at that) in santa cruz deserves a safe place to dance and have fun. club dakota was just that, and it is so disappointing and disheartening that a city so tolerant and embracing of alternative lifestyles should be bereft of that space. the dakota was my place (even as a straight woman) to go and dance and drink and feel comfortable, more comfortable than at any other bar in town. the staff treated me with intimacy, respect, and kindness. i will forever miss this bar, and deeply hope that perhaps a dakota junior will open up in the future. heather and nicole, you rock my socks off!! (if i wore socks, that is...).
kristen tritt , August 01, 2008
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So, of the people who have commented so far and identified their sexual orientation, all but one have been straight. Sounds like the gay folks don't care and it'll be not much of a loss to SC (which is a liberal town anyway so there are gays everywhere).
Robert , August 02, 2008
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Well, there are 9 comments posted so far. 5 of them are gay, like that matters anyway..
It was so nice to have a place where EVERYONE could go and feel safe and comfortable. Thanks to the bouncers who made that happen. I don't even think we have ever had a fight in our club.

Dakota has been my home for the last four years. I'm so grateful for the family I have. I know I will keep these friends forever...
Much love to Mom & Dad, Kara Bad-ASS. BOOTY, A.D.(you are the shit), Steph, Diane, Chivi, James, Rio, MARC, Eric, Brandon, Stephen, Lucy, Irma, DAWN, Peanut, Mini and my Boo Heather...I love you all to pieces.

I can't even say anything about the new owners comments, because I'm so sad and angry...but i'm sorry, you do sound ridiculous...

This is not the end of us....
Nicole , August 02, 2008
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As a gay man, I want a gay place where I and other gay people can go and feel safe - everyone else has the rest of the world to go feel safe! I am tired of straights invading gay places and taking over.

Also, it's sad to see a comment saying that a bar was someone's *home*. How tragic.
Robert , August 03, 2008
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I WAS RAISED IN SANTA CRUZ,,BUT LEFT HOME AND NEVER GOT A CHANCE TO EXPLORED DAKOTA'S, IM A PROUD GAY MALE WHO ENJOYS LIFE,,I'M HAPPY TO SAY THAT I WILL BE MOVING BACK HOME TO SANTA CRUZ,,I WAS SO LOOKING FORWARD TO EXPLORING DAKOTA'S, I HAVE HEARD NOTHING BUT WONDERFUL EXPERIENCES THAT MY FRIENDS HAVE HAD THERE, HOW EVERYBODY WAS TREATED WITH RESPECTED AND HOW THERE WERE NON-JUDGEMENTAL PEOPLE INCLUDEING ALL THE WONDERFUL STAFF MEMBERS,, IT WAS JUST A SAFE TO BE..BUT ALL HAS CHANGE AND I AM ONLY SAD TO KNOW WHAT HAD TOOKEN PLACE..AND I COULD ONLY WISH THAT I HAVE HAD GOT TO SHARE THE EXPERIENCE THAT MY FRIENDS HAD..I LOVE SANTA CRUZ BUT HAVING A PLACE TO GO AND BE MYSELF AND SAFE,,WELL I GUESS THAT GONE..

SORRY DAKOTA WISH I HAVE HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO CREATE HAPPY MEMORIES THERE..
ANTHONY , August 04, 2008
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", Aug. 1 will mark the first day in memory when the Central Coast has been without a gay bar"

Well there is still Franco's In Castroville. I love it, it rocks.
Leslie
www.outmontereybay.com
Leslie , August 04, 2008
Sad to hear of Dakota\'s closure from England
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I was gutted when I heard Dakota was to close. I lived in S.C. back in 98-02 I LOVED hanging out there. The barstaff were fabulous & I'll forever have many great memories from there.

Dakota you'll be missed
xox
Smileybritboi , August 12, 2008
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The new owner is a bigot and has bashed gay individuals and groups countless times. I have visited Dakotas numerous times and strolled up to pearl alley to over here highly bigoted comments coming out of P.M.'s mouth. It's disgusting. I for one will not stand for this.
Norris , August 14, 2008
doesntreallymatter
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open closed in out who cares - equality is everywhere just stop expecting demanding to be more equal
sparky , August 16, 2008
Extremely disappointed
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I am truly saddened that I did not get to experience Club Dakota. I actually moved away from Santa Cruz a full 16 years before it opened. Here we are, still another 12 years beyond that point, and I could kick myself for not having at least visited Santa Cruz during that time.

Now, just this weekend I'm coming to the decision to resume living in Santa Cruz before the year is out, and then I discover there will not be this highly-regarded venue to enjoy.

I will visit the site nonetheless in the coming months. Perhaps by then the word will be that the place will still draw Club Dakota's friends.
Ramon , August 31, 2008
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Faction, straight or gay, is a REAL BORE!
maximus , September 08, 2008

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